Saturday, April 25, 2026

ABQ Visit Spring Break 2026

For a few years, we've been wondering about trying a family visit during my spring break (instead of in the summer). This year, we'll be taking a cruise with Mark's family in June, so we thought it might be a good time to try ABQ for spring break. Of course, that was before we bought a new house! But we decided to follow through with the plan anyway. Since I'm teaching Tuesday/Thursday (and online), we were able to leave the Friday before spring break, and we got home on Tuesday. Travelling over the weekend reduced the number of vacation days Mark needed to take, and it gave me some time after the trip to keep doing stuff around the house before going back to classes. 

We thought a spring break trip might also give us really nice weather. It was definitely a change from the brutally cold winter we'd had in BG! But NM was also having a bit of a heat wave, so maybe too much of a good thing? In any case, the main reason to travel is quality time with family, and we had plenty of that! We also got to make the rounds to our usual favorite local places. Since we came over a weekend, we went to church at Hoffmantown, which we hadn't done for several years (longer for Mark). It was nice to see some old friends! 

One of the best things about visiting in person is hanging out with our nephew (age 5) and niece (age 2), who are super fun. This visit, Lelia was showing off that she'd recently learned how to say our names. Daniel still enjoys reading and building things. We also had lots of good conversations with the adults, often over tea or a delicious meal. And, of course, we can't get enough of the mountain views! 

Here are a few of the highlights in photos:

selfie of Aunt Amy and Leila

Daniel & Meema working on a puzzle

selfie: Daniel & Aunt Amy

breakfast burrito with Mark at Weck's

buildings from Pop-Pop's train layout in Julie's yard

Daniel telling us about the new garden in the front yard

Leila & Nana (with a view in the background!)

the joy of bubble wrap :-)

Daniel with cars from the old train layout

how cute are these siblings?

Papa tickling Leila

Leila with Mommy

Daniel at the park

selfie with Mark & Mom at Gardunos

Julie, Ben, and Grandma at Gardunos

Daniel with a big grilled cheese

we tried for a group shot...this was the best we got!

Sunday, March 15, 2026

House Updates: Buying & Selling

In the fall of 2025, Mark and I started talking about house hunting again. We'd been at Prospect for about 4.5 years, and we were interested in finding a place with more elbow room--for us, and for entertaining. This first house was such a great place for us to start our journey as homeowners, but we were seeing some of the shortcomings (small bathrooms, for one!), and things were lining up financially to make it possible to move on from our starter home. To give credit where it's due, Mark was definitely the one who was ready to explore this possibility first. And he knows me well enough to give me a long runway to think about and get used to a big (expensive) change like this! 

Once we were on the same page, we started getting things organized, like meeting with a new realtor team (we wanted someone based in BG, now that we'd be both buying and selling, and Mark heard of someone with a connection to the marching band, so that was a great fit). We also reconnected with our mortgage broker from last time to get a preapproval set up. I think we had all of that done by Thanksgiving, and we'd been keeping an eye on listings in BG throughout the fall, so we had some idea of what it might cost to buy what we were looking for and what kind of sale price we might expect for our old house. 

It was mid-December when we decided to schedule our first round of showings, remembering that things often look different in real life than in the listing photos! We looked at 3 houses, including one that had been on the market for a few months on Winterwood. We'd been admiring that listing since we first saw it, but assumed it would be out of our price range. Then, there was a price reduction, and we couldn't pass up the chance to see it. It turned out to be just as lovely in person as in the photos, and we were really excited about the floorplan (open floorplan ranch with finished basement). 

Winterwood house (photo from the listing)

After our first house hunting experience, and knowing the inventory in BG is usually limited, we were prepared for it to take some time to find what we were looking for. So we couldn't really believe we may have found a house to make an offer on so quickly. One other thing gave us some hesitation: the HOA. This HOA wasn't included in the listing, but our realtor saw it in the notes on his end and mentioned it before we went to the house. We had been planning to avoid houses with HOAs, but by then, our curiosity was too much...and...when we saw the house, we loved it. So we asked our realtors to do some digging about the HOA, took another look at our budget, and set up another round of showings later that week--just to get all the comparisons we could. And we also scheduled a second showing of the Winterwood house. 

Seeing a few more houses and the Winterwood house a second time confirmed it: we were ready to make an offer. In light of the recent price reduction, we went for a little below asking price, and after a day or two of waiting to hear back from the sellers, we were under contract! And totally stunned that this had all happened so quickly. We really thought we were just taking a preliminary look around, and that we'd start shopping in earnest after our Rose Parade trip. Instead, we were scheduling an inspection before leaving town, travelling while the financial details got underway (including the appraisal), and lining everything up to close on January 21. We worked with our same inspector from the last time (he's awesome!), and only turned up a few issues. There were a hand full of small things we'll be able to take care of ourselves; another was handled by the seller; and the big one--radon remediation--was paid for by the seller, but installed after we moved in. 

Meanwhile, because the new house is less centrally located in town, we knew we'd need to buy another car. We were interested in something all-electric, and we ended up with this cute Chevy Bolt EUV. I miss walking to work, but it has been convenient to have the two cars, for sure. 

selfie with Mark and the new car in the old driveway

new car in the new (big!) garage

Closing went as expected, and it was actually pretty fun to hear the small town realtors chat with each other. Our realtor also asked the seller a bunch of questions while Mark and I signed a gigantic pile of papers, so that was super interesting to overhear! (For example, we learned which house the sellers bought and what kind of dog they have :-). Because of the laws in Ohio, the sellers are allowed to stay in the house for up to 30 days after closing. Our sellers asked for 10 days, so we didn't get possession until January 31. But then, this gorgeous house was ours!

selfie with Mark in the kitchen, the day we got possession
(dining room and living room in the background)

Unfortunately, there were a few snafus at that stage. Specifically, the contract specified that the sellers would leave the washer and dryer as well as all of the window treatments (various curtains). When we got into the house, though, all of that was gone, except for one set of curtains on the front bedroom. So...we got in touch with our realtors to figure out a plan. Initially, we wanted to ask the sellers for cash in lieu of these items, but we couldn't come to an agreement with the seller on the amount. So, in the end, the seller paid his movers to move the curtains, washer, and dryer back to the house, and the seller's realtor offered his handyman to reconnect the washer/dryer (we bought fresh hoses on the handyman's recommendation). It was actually a real headache to get all of this taken care of, but, it's water under the bridge now. 

something important is missing...

almost a week later...washer/dryer are back!

Meanwhile, we had our own agenda of things to get done before we moved in. I'd hired a pair of house cleaners to do an initial clean for us (though we were thankful to find the sellers left the house in good shape, I was still happy to have bathrooms, kitchen, baseboards, and ceiling fans done!). And we had the carpets professionally cleaned, too (they're white--one of the few finishes we would have done differently). As all of this was happening, of course, we were also getting everything packed up and ready to move. 

at the old house...boxes everywhere!

We also recruited friends to help us move Mark's percussion equipment, which we tackled one evening that week (after the carpet was thoroughly dry). We had 7 helpers and 8 cars, and we got everything moved in just one trip! It took just about 2 hours to load, drive, and unload. I couldn't believe how quickly we got that done. And I felt so, so thankful for the friends who were willing to help us out, especially with stairs on both sides, and in the cold weather! It was such a blessing. 

some of Mark's equipment ready to be moved

After that, the next big hurdle was moving day! I had another friend come help with some packing the day before, and Mark ran out to buy some boxes (up till then, we'd had enough freebies from various friends, which was also amazing!). The movers came on Saturday, February 7. This was our first time hiring professional movers, and that was definitely the right call, but the experience didn't really match our expectations. I won't get into details, but it took quite a bit longer than the estimate, and it was a really long day for everyone. But, in the end, our stuff made it to the new house, and we slept in our own bed that night. 

kitchen & living room...and lots of boxes

our bedroom--all ready to sleep!

On Sunday, we took ourselves out to breakfast, then spent most of the day at the Prospect house, getting it ready to go on the market. My main job was cleaning, while Mark took care of some things like changing lightbulbs and taking out an under-the-sink water filter that had stopped working properly. Mark also packed up the contents of the fridge & freezer, and made several trips back and forth to the new house, moving some other things we'd left behind the day before. We were worn out, but the house looked pretty good--ready to go on the market! (Still...strange to see it all empty!)

studio & Mark's office

guest room & my office

front door, from the living room

kitchen (looks almost good as new, right?!)

Our realtors set up a "coming soon" listing that went live the day before we moved out, and the house officially went on the market on Wednesday, February 11. By then, we had 3 showings scheduled for Wednesday, and another 2 for Thursday. This is the first house we've sold, but that seemed like a promising start to us! 

Prospect house for sale! (a photo from the listing)

Indeed, by mid-afternoon on Wednesday, we had our first offer. We had hoped that the house would sell relatively quickly, but we didn't want to count on anything, so this felt pretty incredible. Not only that, but the offer was above asking price and waived inspection. Still, we didn't want to rush things, so we set up a meeting with our realtors when Mark got off work and talked everything over. For example: did we want to contact the other realtors and ask for everyone's highest and best offers by Friday? Ultimately, we decided this first offer was already so good, and we didn't want to complicate things or risk scaring them off with competition. Then, as we were getting ready to sign the paperwork, a second offer came in! Turns out the first one was stronger, so we still accepted it, but the next day, we also signed the second one as a "backup." That meant that if the first fell through, we'd go straight under contract with the other buyer. Even with all this in place, the showings still happened the next day, and we got feedback that two of those people might have made offers, too. Totally incredible! 

Meanwhile, the only real hurdle to clear with the offer we accepted was an appraisal, which came in at the offer price. From there, everything else also went smoothly, and we were able to close early (as we thought might happen--these buyers used the same mortgage broker we did, and we know she'll close early if possible). In fact, they initially wanted to close while we were out of town in ABQ, but we got it scheduled for the next day--March 4--just 21 days after the house went on the market. 

This time, at the closing table, we had only a few things to sign, the buyers signed a bunch of stuff, and we left with a check. Start to finish, the selling process was so much easier and smoother than I was preparing myself for, and even now, it feels unreal. I should also say: the buyers were a young family who work in the neighborhood, so we also felt good about passing the house on to them (and I'm sure the neighbors are also glad another single-family moved in there!). I hope the house works out really well for their family, too! 

Prospect house with sold sign in the yard
(taken after closing; the new owners were
also there, unloading some stuff already :-)

Now, we've been at the Winterwood house for about 5 weeks, and we are making steady progress toward settling in. We've been ordering some new furniture, too. It'll be a while before we have everything, and unpacking is also ongoing, but we're so thankful to be here! We haven't had any guests yet, but we're also looking forward to hosting friends, family, and students in the coming months. Thanks to all of you who cheered us on and supported us in various ways--we appreciate you so much, too! 

Sunday, January 11, 2026

Disneyland and California Adventure

Since we were in southern California for the Rose Parade, we decided to extend our stay for a few days so to go to Disneyland! We wrapped up our jobs with SABD by mid-afternoon on January 2nd, and Mark drove us down to Anaheim. We were pretty tired from all the work of the previous days (not to mention that Mark marched nearly 6 miles in the parade), so we didn't do much the first evening besides settle in at the hotel and walk down the street for dinner at Denny's. 

we stayed at a Fairfield; it was
less than 10 minutes to walk to the parks 

the hotel had some cute Disney touches

I loved this tree in the hotel lobby!

Mark was also wise enough to plan a rest day for us on the 3rd, so we didn't have park tickets. Instead, we went out for breakfast at Mimi's (just up the street). Then we decided to walk through Downtown Disney. We hadn't realized we'd get stuck in a long line for security, but once we were through that, it was a great time to be there--not at all crowded, and we could really admire all the Christmas decorations. Shops started opening just about the time we got to the opposite end, so we were also able to go into the few Disney shops we were interested in and buy our souvenirs for this trip. Once we got back to the hotel, I took care of some laundry and did the last couple of hours of class prep I needed to finish. We walked a bit further to a little Mexican place for lunch. I think we just took it easy for the afternoon...maybe we watched a basketball game? We were so tired! 

one of the shop windows

characters and Christmas trees everywhere!

another shop window

cool dragon on top of the Lego store (made of Lego!)

Lego Buzz & Woody

Frozen characters

loved seeing lots of desert plants and palm trees!

the stores were even decorated for
Christmas on the inside!

selfie with Mark and a 70th anniversary sign

me with the Hulk
(this may be my favorite ever pic
of me mimicking a statue's pose)

super-tasty nachos
(fresh chips, steak, various salsas)

The next morning--Sunday--it was time to hit the theme parks! We started our day at California Adventure, which we'd remembered really liking when we came back in 2017. We bought the paid "Lightning Lane" pass with our vacation package, so we were able to ride a ton of rides without waiting in long lines. We hopped over to Disneyland after lunch, and one great thing about these parks is that they are so close together--just across a big plaza. So it's super fast and easy to go between them. Again, we were able to ride a ton of rides, including two that have impressive Christmas overlays: the Haunted Mansion Holiday (re-themed as Nightmare Before Christmas) and It's a Small World. We tried to stay late for fireworks, but it had rained off and on for most of the day, and between our wet shoes & feet and our overall tiredness level, we called it a night earlier than planned. We did manage to see a great projection show on It's a Small World for Disneyland's 70th anniversary and a short show they do on the castle to show off the holiday lights. 

selfie with Mark and the DCA Christmas tree

selfie with Mark at Pixar Pier
(this area had been re-themed since our last trip)

bridge to San Fransokyo Square
(another area that has been updated)

an outer wall of San Fransokyo Square

snow car in Cars Land

the Cars Land decorations were some of my favorites

Cars Land Christmas movie posters
(if you can read the words, the puns are great)

more Christmas decorations in Cars Land

main intersection in Cars Land

close up of decorations in Grizzly Peak area

even the Chinese take-out place had extra decorations!

Chinese for lunch
(mostly sheltered from the rain)

selfie with Mark and Grizzly Peak

70th anniversary banners

the Monorail, running between park entrances

selfie with Mark and a 70th display

squinty selfie with Mark and the train station

selfie with Mark and the castle

selfie with Mark on Storyland Canal Boats

one of the scenes on Storyland Canal Boats
(a very cute ride they don't have at Disney World)

some Haunted Mansion Holiday decorations

close-up of Haunted Mansion decorations

Christmas parade at Disneyland

Ana, Olaf, and Elsa in the parade

Goofy's gingerbread house

princesses in the parade

Santa!

Christmas in It's a Small World

New Year's in It's a Small World

more Christmas in It's a Small World

me with Minnie's house in Toon Town

the famous monte cristo sandwich

Main Street at night

Christmas tree at night

close-up of Christmas wreath

holiday lighting on It's a Small World

the 70th anniversary projection show

Walt, Mickey, and the castle

Christmas lights on the castle

another shot of the castle at night

On Monday, we went back to both parks--this time starting in Disneyland, then hopping over to California Adventure after lunch. Again, we were able to ride lots of rides. Thankfully, the weather was so much better, and that made it easier to slow down a bit and enjoy the atmosphere--both the regular park theming and the Christmas decorations. This day, we toughed it out till 9pm for the evening show, World of Color, Happiness--a special version for the 70th. We were kind of dragging from dinner onward, but the show was definitely worth seeing! It's hard to describe--no fireworks, but super impressive water and lighting effects, plus a nice storyline with the characters from Inside Out. 

walking through the line for Indiana Jones

in line for Pirates of the Caribbean

Walt & Mickey statue

a fantastic, funny stage show
retelling Beauty and the Beast

about to walk through the castle

famous hand-dipped corn dogs
(they really are good!)

selfie on the monorail

selfie with Mark and the castle

Mark & me with the Incredicoaster
and Ferris wheel in the background

selfie with Mark and the
Guardians of the Galaxy ride

Mater drove right by us while we
were taking a break on a bench

theme park pizza for dinner
(mine was a slice of "holiday" special)

lanterns in San Fransokyo Square at night

Cars Land decorations at night

Grizzly Peak decorations at night

more Grizzly Peak decorations

Ferris wheel at night

Pixar Pier at night

World of Color: Happiness

World of Color: Happiness

World of Color: Happiness

Tuesday was just a travel day, leaving our hotel around 9:30am, getting the rental car returned, and checking in at the airport with plenty of time. We had a direct flight that actually arrived about 20 minutes early in Detroit, and we were back in BG by about 10pm--tired enough to go to bed not long after that. We're so glad we added on these Disney park days, but it was a long time to be gone, and there's no place like home! Now, it's a bit hard to believe that the spring semester starts tomorrow, but it'll probably be good to get some kind of routine going again.

On the other hand, we're in the middle of another big project: moving! We're buying another house in BG and putting ours on the market soon. That'll keep us pretty busy for the next month or two--I'll post some more details when I have the chance.